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Shane Rounce: 'm in a long distance relationship with a girl who I have loved since…

Shane Rounce · 16 years ago

'm in a long distance relationship with a girl who I have loved since the moment I laid eyes on her on valentines day, the day after that we got together and on the 15th we've been together nine months.Its clear that we both love each other so much. Thats been proved so many times and its proven constantly by the fact that we've kept a relationship going at a distance of half of England. 130+ miles and a 3 hour drive away (with REALLY expensive travel costs).I spend all my money on seeing her and doing things with her. I'm moving up there for university next year and we've always said how amazing its going to be living close to each other and being able to fall asleep next to each other every night.The underlying love is there, no doubt, but every week since 6 months I feel unwanted, belittled and low. My friends tell me all the time that I'm wasting my time when I'm getting nothing in return. She calls me a dumb bitch for falling asleep during text conversations at 4am and constantly makes me feel like I'm an idiot when I'm actually an intelligent person. She reminds me all the time that everyone wants a piece of her and everyone flirts with her on a night out, making me feel as if she's too good for me, and whenever we argue its blamed on me.Theres a lot going on in my life lately and all she has to say when I'm upset is "kk". We argued today and she called me a miserable bitch and told me to fuck off and leave her alone numerous times. Then to top that off just deleted me off Facebook.I love her with all my heart and can't bare the thought of her being out of my life.Do I listen to my heart and stay with her and hope for the best, or do I listen to my friends that care about me and probably know whats best and leave her?

Leave the bitch. Sounds like far too much hassle tbh.

The "kk" response from a  girl usually means they're not at all interested, which probably also means she's stopped caring, especially if you're talking about deeply personal and upsetting matters.

Try and cheer up, move on and just enjoy life. :D